I have a quick question for y’all.
Do you ever stop to think about who has the privilege of messing with you? What I mean is the people who you allow to make you feel mad or sad or otherwise not good?
We definitely can’t control the people around us. They are responsible for their own behavior and, admittedly, sometimes it is super craptastic.
On the other hand, we can control our behavior that is to say how we react. So if there’s someone who ain’t paying your bills who is trying to upset y’all, reconsider that. Please. Instead, just don’t let them.
I have a post up on the blog that’s all about this that you might wanna check out. Like seriously it’s just about what to do when people try to treat you like crap.
You’re the one in control and you have the veto. Protect your peace, Sis.